Anonymous said: Be honest, when comes to guy advice and you say things like "he's out there, just wait" or "find someone who loves you for you" is that advice that you yourself follow? I'm curious, your a beautiful girl who I can imagine could have any guy she wants but at the same time I honestly see you picking the hot guy who's a dbag over someone who's a complete sweetheart but might be overweight or something like that.
You sound like a guy who views himself very negatively haha this tells me more about you and your views than it tells me anything about me. I can’t just “have anyone I want”. People aren’t groceries, you don’t just walk up and pick them and anyone who lets you walk up and pick them is emotionally deranged anyway. Yes I am keeping the faith and waiting until the right person comes. I have a ton of great work opportunities right now and 0 guys asking for my time. Hmmm, should I devote any of my energy to random boys? No. Relationships don’t “fix your life” or “solve all your problems” but they can create a lot of new ones. That’s why you gotta make sure you’re with someone who’s worth the headache cuz lets face it, any relationship between two people, whether its family, friends, coworkers or the ever-sought-after romantic partners, has friction, miscommunications, misunderstandings, hurt feelings and a whole lot of other crap. There’s also a lot of awesome stuff (duh) but you can’t be delusional and just tell yourself it’ll be all smiles and rainbows and you’ll spend the rest of your days obsessing over that perfect person whom you just love so flawlessly and you’ll never want to shave their eyebrows off. Cuz you will want to shave their eyebrows off at some point. And that’s when you have to be with someone with good character, a solid moral foundation and a really good heart, so you have a real reason to stay with them.